Archive for September, 2008

Monday Morning Rock Out!

This week’s Rock Out is a shout-out to the fabulous folks who attended the Dorothy Johnson Center’s Governance Conference this past Friday. I am so very grateful for the opportunity to have been of service to you during that terrific day!

Throughout the morning, we focused on the need to change the way we see things, before we can change the things we do. The “doing” part is easy if we have transformed the way we think and be as participants in this sector.

When we change the way we see things, things change. But as we have been exploring in the posts about the arts, “seeing” is not just about the images that touch the eyes of our flesh; seeing is just as much (if not more) about the eyes of our spirit.

In Grand Rapids, the assembled board members in Grand Valley State’s Loosemore Auditorium were encouraged to see what would be possible if they focused their vision – their seeing – on making a difference. As that way of seeing sunk in, moment by moment, I watched as board member after board member felt empowered. That vision is why we join boards!

And so, as you head into your week, that is what I wish for you. Encourage your eyes to see all they have the potential to see. The Little Prince reminds us that “One cannot see well except with the heart; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”

Change the way you see things. And things will change.

Have a great Monday, and a great week, all!

If you are new to the Monday Morning Rock Out, you can find previous Rock Outs here – enjoy!

Many many thanks to our friend / colleague / Community-Driven co-conspirator, Michael Kumer (Dean of the Masters of Science in Community Leadership Program at Duquesne University) for sharing this marvelous snippet of life’s possibilities with us.

(And if you or someone you know is considering getting your Masters degree, the mission of the Masters of Science in Community Leadership program at Duquesne is nothing less than providing a change-the-world, leave-a-legacy, make-a-difference experience for its students. We know because we helped the department recraft its strategy to do just that, and because we teach a course, “Creating the Future of Your Community,” as adjunct faculty in that new curriculum!)

Donors are Not Extemely Happy

The Nonprofit Times reports the following:

“Only slightly more than 1 in 10 donors (13 percent) say their experience as a donor exceeded expectations, according to a new survey. While 83 percent of donors said their experience met expectations, it leaves “more room for improvement for nonprofits to wow their donors,” said Dirk Rinker, president and CEO of Campbell Rinker, a marketing research firm.”

When will we see surveys that ask the only people who matter – the communities we serve?  When will we begin getting a real read on what we should be accomplishing, and for whom?

As long as we continue to see ourselves primarily accountable to donors, we will continue to disappoint BOTH our communities AND our DONORS.

Lessons in Compassion and Wisdom

Looking back today, seven years after the 9/11 attacks, I fear that if we have learned anything meaningful from that horrible day, we certainly have not put that knowledge into action.

What we have instead put into action are the same reactions we have relied upon since time began – reactions of violent revenge, an eye for an eye.

We seem doomed to those reactions, incapable of outgrowing the parts of our brains that we share with every other beast on this planet – reacting to violence with violence, reacting from fear.

We are humans.  Our gifts, unique to us in all the world, include reason and compassion and wisdom.  Yet we react as my dog might react when confronted by an enemy. Our extraordinary human gifts never even enter the decision-making picture.

And so, in honor of today’s remembrances, I want to share two videos that are gripping, loving, encouraging.  The first is from someone who has become a hero to me.  It is a powerful reminder that it is possible to react from wisdom rather than hatred.

And after that, the remedy. The joy. The sense of what is possible.

In the words of the Buddha, “Hate never stopped hate. Only love stops hate.”

So on this September 11, and from this day forward, can we vow to respond to hatred with love?  Can we be compassionate to those we feel deserve it the least?  Can we think beyond reaction, to consider root causes of the violence we identify as evil?  Can we defend ourselves preventatively, so we do not have to reactively destroy others?

Can we at least try?