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Are You Ending or Beginning?

Ending Beginning SignThe world is filled with problems. We keep trying to end those problems, but despite our tremendous efforts, they are still here.

In the U.S. alone, we have seen 40 years of “wars” on drugs, on poverty, on terror, on illegal immigration. But with all the dollars and time and effort we have spent trying to end this or that, the world is still filled with problems.

Around the globe, people have spent billions and trillions of dollars, trying once and for all to end many of our planet’s problems. Smart, caring people have dedicated their lives to figuring out every approach imaginable for ending the pain in our world. We have created prevention programs (the ultimate in problem-solving), and we have lately seen a whole slew of “blueprints to end” this or that - hunger, homelessness. And so we now have “blueprints” to end what the “wars” could not end. We are trying, desperately trying, working so hard, so long, so ceaselessly, to end the bad things that cause pain.

And despite our well-intentioned and well-thought-out efforts, we keep feeling like we are not getting anywhere.

And the reason we feel like we are not getting anywhere is because we are, in fact, not getting anywhere.

But then, we have not been aiming at getting anywhere. We have instead been setting our sights directly at our problems. And as happens when we give that much energy to anything, it grows. Yes, it grows.

We have aimed all our energy at our problems, and they are thriving under our attention.

So what is a caring citizen of the world to do?

Ending Something Bad vs. Beginning Something Incredible
The answer is, caring citizens, to stop aiming all our efforts at ending our problems. Seriously.

Instead of aiming all our attention and energy at what we DON’T want, let’s instead aim at building incredible, building amazing.

Let’s stop aiming our work at ending something bad, and let’s start aiming that work at building something good. Let’s aim at building an incredible place to live - an amazing community, an amazing world.

Think about it. We certainly cannot create an amazing place to live without addressing in some way the problems we have today. But unlike the “then what?” of problem-solving, aiming at amazing IS the “then what”!

A community that is compassionate, wise, healthy, vibrant - a community that nurtures artistic expression, that brings out the best in us rather than simply trying to suppress the worst in us.

A world full of people who react from our human potential for wisdom and compassion, before reacting from our animal instincts for survival.

No need to aim at ending anything at all. All we need to do is aim at beginning something incredible.

Start with your own organization’s planning. Are your plans reacting to your community’s increasing demands and needs, trying to end something bad? Or are they aiming at a great beginning - building an amazing place to live? If you plan for building an amazing community, you will address your community’s needs on the way to building “amazing.”

Are you creating a prevention program, aimed at preventing something bad - ending it once and for all - perhaps preventing / ending diabetes, heart disease, obesity? Or perhaps preventing / ending teen pregnancy, high school drop rates, gang violence? Or are you instead aiming at a great beginning - building a healthy community in all ways, a vibrant, resilient, nurturing place to live, where diabetes and heart disease and teen pregnancy and gang violence are addressed as one of many “to do” items on the road to building that healthy place to live?

Now look inside your organization. Are you reacting to internal problems, perhaps considering a Capacity Building initiative? Are you hoping you can get enough funding to address the area that happens to be on fire this year? Or are you aiming those plans at a great beginning - planning for overall health and strength for all your organization’s efforts? If you plan to make all your efforts healthy and strong in every way, you will address those problems on the way to building “amazing.”

And what about your board? Are you aiming your board development efforts at problem-solving, to finally put a stop to those nagging issues of recruitment and fundraising, succession planning and financial planning? Or are you aiming your board at a great beginning - tapping its immense potential to move forward not only the organization, but your mission and your vision for a better community / a better world? If you are encouraging and inspiring your board to its very highest potential, the board will address its problems along the way to building “amazing.”

And don’t get me started on world events! Are we aiming at ending a war, or are we aiming at the greatest beginning of all - building peace? Those two scenarios could not look more different. If we end the war on the way to building a peaceful region, a peaceful world - now that would be aiming at building “amazing” in every way we could dream of.

It all comes down to one question:

Are we aiming at an ending or a beginning?

Are we aiming all our energies and resources at ending something bad,
or at creating something incredible?

If you want your work to be inspired, if you want to encourage and inspire others to that work, and if you want to tap on the highest potential we all have to accomplish incredible things, my money is on aiming at beginning something incredible - aiming at building “amazing.”

But more importantly, if you want to address your community’s problems, once and for all, stop trying to solve those problems. Stop aiming all your energies at an ending. Start aiming instead at a beginning - the beginning of building an amazing, vibrant, energized, nurturing, caring and compassionate place to live.

We are creating the future, every minute of every day, whether we do so consciously or not.
What amazing tomorrow will you begin building today?

Stop Sign: The 4 Walls of Our Organizations

If this is the sector that was supposed to change the world, how come the world isn’t dramatically different? What’s stopping the sector from reaching its considerable potential to create significant, visionary improvement in our communities?

This series is all about the stumbling blocks we have found - Stop Signs along the road to creating an amazing future for our communities and our world. (To see other Stop Signs in this series, just click here.)


Stop Sign: The 4 Walls of Our Organizations
Last week we met with a group that was getting more and more excited about our work together. As we focused on the outcomes they wanted from the work, they kept telling us, “This will really help aim us at making our community incredible!”

But as we began outlining what it would take to accomplish their desired end results, we could tell they were getting more and more fearful. Finally they told us, “We can’t afford any of this,” and they sunk into their chairs.

Our response was what it always is. “Of course you can. You just have to get outside your 4 walls!”

In our experience, community organizations understand precisely what they need to be and do, to accomplish amazing things for their communities. They know they need to address big picture community changes and big picture internal changes; they need overall plans and overall strength; they need systems and succession work and sustainability planning. They know this is what will get them past the constant battle to put out fires, and move them on towards creating an amazing future for their communities.

The problem is that while organizations know what they need to do, they believe they cannot afford to do it.

And so, what they do instead is to gather the small amounts of money they believe are all they can find, to address whatever is on fire. Those bigger things - the things that can really make a difference - remain perpetually on hold.

And of course the irony is that until all those other issues are addressed, there will continue to be fire after fire, and they will continue to be unable to afford anything!

So what is the answer? The answer is not a grant. It is not a Sugar Daddy.

The answer is to bust down the walls - the walls that keep our organizations separate from the rest of the community.

Those walls tell us, “We are indeed separate. Capacity Building is a proprietary process, to build our own organization’s strength, so we can compete better, and therefore work better. We must do that work on our own, so no one knows our secrets but our consultant. Coke doesn’t share its secrets with Pepsi - why should we share our secrets with our competition? Capacity Building is about US”

Of course we don’t think this consciously. But those 4 walls do affect what we look for in Capacity Building, and how we consider we can pay for that, all because we assume we are separate from everyone else out there doing the same work as our organization.

So what might look different if we stepped outside those 4 walls?

For starters, we would ask different questions. Instead of, “Where can we get a grant for this?” we might ask, “If we were to aim at making our community an amazing place to live, who would our natural partners be? And what if we were to learn together how we can all become strong enough to create significantly more impact?”

The impact of that shared approach to capacity building is almost overwhelming.

First, you will spend time with other groups who care about what you care about.

Second, from spending all that time together, you will build great relationships. You will see possibilities you never saw before, far beyond the work you initially contracted to accomplish.

Third, it is fundable - infinitely fundable. Picture 3 or 5 or 7 organizations going to a funder (or a group of funders - get them to collaborate, too!) and asking, “We would like to all learn together and grow strong together - to plan together, strengthen our boards together, to learn to sustain our efforts together, and to see what could grow from that.” Can you imagine a funder on the planet not drooling over that proposal?

Fourth, the cost becomes reasonable. That is because what might have seemed like an astronomical project for one group is now shared among 3 or 5 or 7 groups. What a funder will see is in every way a bargain - a comprehensive capacity building initiative that will have far more benefit than just the mere learning, at a cost they likely would have spent had they given each of those 5 organizations small grants for more narrowly-defined (i.e. ineffective) capacity building efforts.

Fifth, what truly is proprietary stays that way. A good facilitator and teacher knows when to give groups work-alone time, and when to gather them back together. There is no reason the group cannot all learn and create their own plans, and yet come back together to share what they have learned from that process.

Sixth, the obligation on the part of the participating organizations is nothing more than to show up and spend time together in a spirit of possibility. None of the groups is obligated to do anything together beyond that. And with no expectations, there are no turf issues. The groups share their resources and spend time together, and what happens from there is gravy.

Lastly, the focus stays on the community, because that is the reason you have all gathered together. The question of capacity building is seen for what it is - means to an end. Which brings us back to the outcomes we were talking with the group about in our office last week. These weren’t outcomes for the organization; they were outcomes for the community, using the organization merely as a vessel, the means to that Community-Driven end result.

And how do I know all this? I have run such groups, in various shapes and forms, for organizations across the country. It is how we run all our community-wide workshops - as shared facilitations. The groups learn from each other, and then they spend time applying what they are learning to their own work.

We have also been involved with innovative long term initiatives, from Lincoln, Nebraska to Phoenix, Arizona. These longer term initiatives allow the participants get to know and trust each other over time. It is not unusual for some of these groups to keep meeting for years after the project is over, having built trust relationships together.

So what could you accomplish for your organization and for your community if you dreamed your biggest dream, and then stepped outside your 4 walls to share that work with others?

The box - those 4 walls that say MINE ME US - and THEM - those walls will be our undoing. They are a stop sign we need to knock down and bury in the dust.

What we can accomplish together is 10 times / 100 times / 1,000 times what we can accomplish alone. We need each other. So let’s knock down those imaginary walls - and knock down that stop sign - and see what we could do if we were to do it together!

Monday Morning Rock Out!

Monday morning - a brand new week! Or is it?…..

Is there really such thing as a brand new week? Or is this simply the next day in the history of our world - a history we are responsible for writing, for this next little while?

Just as Bono and U2 pay homage in this week’s video to everyone who has made music what it is today, I cannot watch this video without thinking of all the people who have dedicated their lives to making our world what it is. What a gift they have given us! (Unlike the video, though, their words are not lip-synced to such a catchy tune. Can you believe how well this is done?)

(9/08 update - the ability to put the video in this post has been disabled, so here is the link - sorry!)

The history of our world is now in our hands. But history isn’t just the past - it is today, tomorrow. We are creating history with every second that passes, just as Louis Armstrong and Billie Holiday did with their music. Where are we taking history next? What will the next chapter of this story be?

Infinite gratitude towards all things past. Infinite service to all things present. Infinite responsibility to all things future. *

In music and in life, these are incredible instructions for starting not just the week, but every day. We are creating the future, this week, this day, this moment. Let’s see what we can make of the world!

Have a great Monday and a great week, all!

(U2 has posted a subtitled version of Window in the Skies at its website, so you can see who everyone is in the video - from Vladimir Horowitz , Nat King Cole and Ella, to Frank Zappa, Elvis (Presley and Costello), and Elton John, right up to The White Stripes and bands I am too old to have heard of - not to mention David Byrne’s Talking Foot! Just click here and then click where it says Test your rock ‘n’ roll cred here. When the box pops up, follow the red words to choose high/medium/low speed connection - and ignore the NOTE that says you must register. It should play just fine.)

(If you are new to the Monday Morning Rock Out, you can find previous Rock Outs here - enjoy!)

* When philosopher and theologian Huston Smith asked Zen master Daisetz Suzuki, “What is zen?” these words were his reply.